Uncertainty of life

A few weeks earlier got to experience another life's handiwork,perhaps the greatest, which keeps the life going the "UNCERTAINTY" of it.

I am currently working in a foreign land and my supervisor suddenly decides to call it quits whimsically over a trifle issue (in my opinion, coz she kept emphasizing on its magnitude).

The whole week passed in ambiguity and in the fear that what now (although not a permanent job per se, I was prepared to be here for two years)? With my brother's wedding in July (a trip already planned) and amidst the upcoming house that we are busy building at my native place. It was deja vu all over again. 

1. the first time was right after matric on the question of which place and school to choose for a better education to get into a medical college?

2. After grade 12 whether to do a normal graduation or attend a coaching institute (to prepare for medical entrance exams)?

3. After getting through a famous private medical college whether to take a big loan (My father had arranged it but I dropped the idea at the last moment because I didn't want to burden my family with such a massive amount of money)?
THE BIGGEST AND MOST INCOMPREHENSIBLE ONE THE SUDDEN ILLNESS AND DEMISE OF MY FATHER.................

4.After college which place to do a masters?

5. After masters which place to do a PhD, in what subject?

6.Where to pursue a postdoctoral position? Which area? or to look for a job???

(listed the ones that immediately popped in my head)

This outlines the story of all of our lives. Life plays us all. The onus lies on us that how we get played.